Where's the script?
Funny things happen all the time and sometimes the unscripted ones are the most memorable. For a year we have pursued Bai Lu and imagined what the gotcha moment was going to be like, but we never expected this. We were to meet her at 2:30 at the civils affairs office, so we were early and showed up about 2:10. We took the elevator to the 5th floor, but when we got there the office was locked because they were opening especially for three families. Carrie mentioned that she had to go to the bathroom since we had 20 minutes to wait. I told her she probably shouldn't since Bai Lu may very well come up the elevator and she might miss the first moment with her. I then said maybe we should just wait on the 4th floor so we can really meet her at the office. I said that if I see the elevator light go off we might want to leave first. As I said this the elevator doors open and out walks a man (who I figure is the civil affairs worker)...followed by a woman I didn't know...followed by a girl in yellow--"Carrie, it's Bai Lu!" So after a year of imagining the scene, we meet her in a room next to the elevator.
This was the same beautiful girl though. She was very reserve as we approached her, tried to get our cameras moving, and trying to grasp the fact that Bai Lu here all at the same time. We hugged her and then sat on the couch outside the civil affairs door trying to get to know her. Our guide Rebecca was marvelous in helping bridge a significant language barrier. We spent about 10 minutes together and then went inside. Carrie, Hannah and I went into one room to fill out papers while Bai Lu went into another to get processed.
When we left Spokane I told our agent Kathy that I was concerned about how much luggage Bai Lu would have. She told me I might be surprised. I was. She came in and carried a lunchbox size bag with a couple of pair of underclothes, two books, and that was all. Her possessions for 12 years consists of things that would fit into my camera case. We also learned that she's never been outside of Dongguan, never swam, never had a family, and has a heart of gold. She is a great addition to our family. She is understandably very quiet and timid about her language, and uses chopsticks a lot better than we do.
She seems to understand what has happened and seems excited about it, but it will be a slow process as her English skills are extremely limited and so are our Mandarin ones. But through all of this, we know that Bai Lu was marked to be in our family and it is good. She and Hannah have done well together (playing games, watching movies, etc). We have quite a journey ahead of us.
Please pray:
the language of love will be understood
her fears will be eased
bonding will happen quickly
Thanks for walking through this with us---it's always a great story.
Steve
This was the same beautiful girl though. She was very reserve as we approached her, tried to get our cameras moving, and trying to grasp the fact that Bai Lu here all at the same time. We hugged her and then sat on the couch outside the civil affairs door trying to get to know her. Our guide Rebecca was marvelous in helping bridge a significant language barrier. We spent about 10 minutes together and then went inside. Carrie, Hannah and I went into one room to fill out papers while Bai Lu went into another to get processed.
When we left Spokane I told our agent Kathy that I was concerned about how much luggage Bai Lu would have. She told me I might be surprised. I was. She came in and carried a lunchbox size bag with a couple of pair of underclothes, two books, and that was all. Her possessions for 12 years consists of things that would fit into my camera case. We also learned that she's never been outside of Dongguan, never swam, never had a family, and has a heart of gold. She is a great addition to our family. She is understandably very quiet and timid about her language, and uses chopsticks a lot better than we do.
She seems to understand what has happened and seems excited about it, but it will be a slow process as her English skills are extremely limited and so are our Mandarin ones. But through all of this, we know that Bai Lu was marked to be in our family and it is good. She and Hannah have done well together (playing games, watching movies, etc). We have quite a journey ahead of us.
Please pray:
the language of love will be understood
her fears will be eased
bonding will happen quickly
Thanks for walking through this with us---it's always a great story.
Steve


9 Comments:
At 7:58 AM,
Anonymous said…
What a wonderful way to spend a Sunday morning...in tears reading about this beautiful little girl. I can hardly see to type...it is really happening after the long wait. Little Sophie said, "Bai Lu home!" We can't wait to meet her and hear more stories. We love you!!
Kristin, Kirk and Sophie
At 9:19 AM,
Anonymous said…
Thanks man! You ought to be a Hallmark card writer. Your words 1. pierced my analytical shell and 2. struck my "fluffy" heart. 3. Now I'm a gushing well of tearful joy! Great! :)
Thanks for letting us share in your adventures across the pond. We can't wait to meet Bai Lu!
Kirk
At 10:36 AM,
Anonymous said…
Steve, Carrie, Hannah, & Bai Lu:
I home sick but not too sick to rejoice in this blessed family reunion. We will be praying that the knitting together of your hearts happens quickly. We love you all and look forward to your return.
Love, Larry
At 11:11 AM,
Anonymous said…
I read the letter to the kids and could hardly finish the end. My heart broke for a life that has had so little, but pray for a future filled with love and joy. May the bonding be happening as we write! Cute pictures!
Love and prayers to you all..mom and dad B
At 12:41 PM,
Mei Mei said…
Yeah!!!! Prasie the Lord!!! Your patience and faithfulness have finally been fullfilled! We love you all so much and Bai Lu has also fully captured our love, she is absolutley beautiful and lovely. Christ's love is so abundant in your family we know that Bai Lu will be filled with it through you.
Barron, Cheri, Sam, Noah, Grace and Olivia
At 1:32 PM,
Anonymous said…
Oh, how beautiful God does things! I'm crying at His faithfulness and goodness. We love you all and can't wait to meet Bai Lu~
Love, Trudy
At 3:44 PM,
Anonymous said…
Congratulations Allen Family! We are so happy to see Grace Bai Lu with her family. It overwhelms me to consider the miraculous change that has occurred for her. To go from a little bag of belongings to a mom, dad, three sisters and a brother in a free country. WOW! Thank you for letting us tag along.
At 5:05 PM,
Anonymous said…
"I know that everything God does will endure forever; nothing can be added to it and nothing taken from it. God does it so men will revere him." Ecclesiastes 3:14
GOD HAS DONE A WONDERFUL THING!
Congratulations to all of you! She is precious!
Scott, Kelli, Bethany, Micaiah,
Josiah, Grace, & AnnaRose
At 9:15 PM,
Anonymous said…
Great is Thy faithfulness! I cannot think of anything else to say. How blessed are our families with these amazing children. Bai Lu seems like the perfct fit! Lori
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